The fire of human aspiration

Plus: Feminist exhaustion, the invention of the wheel and behind the scenes with an intimacy coördinator (#536)

This is David, your personified antithesis to the For You feed. You're reading the Weekly Filet, the newsletter for curious minds who love when something makes them go «Huh, I never thought of it this way!». As every Friday, I'm here to help you make sense of what’s happening, and imagine what could be. Let's go.

1. Something Extraordinary Is Happening All Over the World

«Our politics revolve around the idea that scarce resources mean keeping people out. We are utterly unprepared for a world in which perhaps the scarcest resource will be people.» An excellent analysis of how migration, once again at the center of so many political debates and divides, is so often misunderstood or misconstrued. I like how the author describes migration as deeply rooted in the «human desire for flourishing and to set one’s own path in life», as an «act of faith, kindled by the fire of human aspiration.»

2. 27 Notes On Growing Old(er)

A telltale sign that you are, in fact, growing old(er), is that you start paying attention to such an article. Even more so when you feel seen in more of the 27 notes than you had hoped. Jokes aside, it's a thought-provoking list, for people of all ages. And there might be still plenty of time to feel young: At the age of 94, legendary investor Warren Buffett told an interviewer he had never felt old until he passed 90.

27 Notes On Growing Old(er)
A Universal Process That’s Also Mighty Strange

3. The Great Feminist Exhaustion

It's even a double exhaustion: of the term feminism, and of the generations of women whose hard-fought-for achievements are losing ground again.

The Great Feminist Exhaustion
And a Partially Formed Theory of 2025 Culture

4 How was the wheel invented?

We regularly get reminded that we don't have to reinvent it, but how was the wheel invented in the first place? Surprisingly, it's not clear, neither is who made the discovery or where.

How was the wheel invented? Computer simulations reveal the unlikely birth of a world-changing technology nearly 6,000 years ago
People have long assumed that wheels evolved from simple wooden rollers. But how? And why? A new model focused on mechanical advantage and structural strength suggests some answers.

5. How I Learned to Become an Intimacy Coördinator

When actors play fight scenes, there are experts who make sure they look realistic and nobody gets hurt. When actors play intimate scenes...well, it makes sense to have essentially the same. A fascinating profile of an important role I've somehow never thought about.

How I Learned to Become an Intimacy Coördinator
At a sex-choreography workshop, a writer discovered a world of Instant Chemistry exercises, penis pouches, and nudity riders to train for Hollywood’s most controversial job.

What else?

Instant-gratification links that make you go wow! or aha! the moment you click.

Books for curious minds

Some new ones as I read them, some older ones that continue to inform how I look at the world and myself.

It‘s really fascinating what a difference in perspective introducing a new word — carnism — can make. Buy it here.

A gem from the archive

Kurt Vonnegut on the Shapes of Stories
On a lighter note: Kurt Vonnegut explains three basic story patterns on a blackboard.

The Weekly Filet archive offers more than 2500 hand-picked links since 2011, like this one. You can search by interests, explore collections, shuffle for a gem or check out my all-time favs.

That's it for this week. Thanks for reading. I wish you a nice weekend and hope to see you again next Friday!

— David

Exit through the gift shop

Other things I created that you might find useful: 🌍 You Don't Know Africa, a simple game that has already humbled millions of people. 💯 Choose Impact, an online tool to compare job opportunities. 💬 Climate Questions, a playful conversation starter. My 📚 digital bookshelf, with sections of 🌡️ books that help you make sense of the climate crisis, ⛵ books that make you a better product manager, and 🧒 books that help you as a parent.